This week's reader appears to be familiar with the phenomenon when asking, "Tell me what I need to know. I don't have a specific question as there are all areas of my life that I need clarification on. I feel always in a state of high anxiety over the well being of my family. It's all I have and all I care about."
To answer this question, I used the Star Spread, which is useful for analyzing questions like this one-- it provides advice for the situation, …show more content…
You're not going to be much good to anyone if you're miserable. Try allowing your family to give back and care for you! It may also be a matter of prime importance to get your living situation together. You need sanctuary, not just a roof over your head. The two are not synonymous.
Card 6: The crucial insight. Page of Swords.
Deadlines, either personal or imposed from an outside source. Bills, bills, bills! Notices and messages we're not crazy about seeing. Upsetting conversation or communication. Different communication styles cause hurt feelings and disagreements. A need to think everything through.
First of all, Reader, you might consider that some of the internal deadlines you set for yourself would be next to impossible for anyone to meet: cut yourself a break and give yourself about twice as much time as you think you'll need to achieve your goals for yourself and your family. Try to watch the overly harsh inner dialogue.
Additionally, If you're finding that conversations between you and your family members are fraught with misunderstandings and hurt feelings, try to remember that tact and diplomacy on all sides may be the way to reach middle