Common characteristics of power mongers are: expects to get his way, self-confident, problem-solver, knows important people, reliable, makes decisions quickly and effectively.
Women are suckers for this type guy. You will spend the entire relationship blinded by fairy dust to the extent you’re tempted to bow when he enters the room. When he promises to take care of everything, take him literally. He’ll ambush you by telling you what to wear, what to do and when to do it.
As for physical appearance, think portly, gently-balding man, who should have a wife and three kids in college (and probably does). If you confront him, he’ll just shrug and say, “And why is it your business?”
This is a classic case of a woman seeking a father/protector. …show more content…
The real deal is to learn to recognize toxic people and get out while the gettin’s good.
But, it’s hard to leave (some) toxic men, isn’t it?
The ‘secret’ to avoiding toxic relationships is to wake your-fine-self up. Love the person that smiles back to you in the mirror. Appreciate your great qualities and make an effort to break negative habit patterns. Know that you are enough, just as you are. You don’t need a man to complete you. Creator didn’t make people pieces that must fit together.
Now, let’s explore reasons it’s difficult to leave a toxic man. The more you have invested in your relationship, the more excuses you can find for not leaving. Face it, you’re probably addicted to his good qualities. When he says you’re the most beautiful woman he’s ever met, when he makes sweet love to you, when he tells you he can’t bear to lose you – all these things make you feel desired and beautiful.
Maybe you’ve become accustomed to the luxurious lifestyle, only he can give you. Perhaps he’s alluded you won’t have fine things and won’t be able to function without him. Being financially dependent upon a toxic man makes it hard to leave