Anxiety: From The Wife To The Husband

This article is focused on Anxiety and a little smidge of depression to add on. The author is a regular young married woman who lives her normal life with her husband, but unfortunately another guest. The type of guest who comes unwelcomed and you can’t deny their entry into your home and life. Neither one of the home tenants want the guest to show up but they have learned they have to accept that the guest will show up and need to learn how to deal with it. Personally I love this essay from the Wife to the Husband because I can relate to a few points in the essay. But I feel that the wife needed to explain a little more about how it feels to deal with the anxiety, how it pops up so unexpectedly and it wouldn’t hurt to add in some statistics …show more content…
Like I said before I feel that the wife needed to explain a little more about how it feels to deal with the anxiety, how it pops up so unexpectedly and add in some statistics. Being a prime example of what it feels like to have anxiety and to also date someone who has anxiety analyzing this essay is easy. My spouse deals with anxiety but not as high as I do. I have more of General Anxiety Disorder as he has Social anxiety. So in a way sure we both suffer from anxiety but due to him suffering quite less than me he just like the author's husband does not completely understand. If the author were to explain more in details about the feeling of anxiety the husband would get a better feel on how to help. She stresses that they can work together through it and says she needs him to comfort her but how could he if all he knows is that she is sad, it is not his fault and there's demons in her mind. To me that just sounds scary and would make me, if I wasn’t dealing with anxiety, scared and stand offish. I’m sure it is not easy to explain the feelings of anxiety, But she could go more in depth about how it triggers. How one day you are having the best day of your life, out having a blast with your spouse. Wake up early go watch the sunrise together, catch an early breakfast and then as you're in the car going to your planned out day destination your spouse gets a call. He is being called into work. He impulsively apologizes as he’s driving you both home. So he can drop you off and then proceed to getting ready to go to work. Now although you are so happy and had one of the best days of your life, that happiness will soon be taken away from you without possibility of stopping. He kisses you goodbye and you smile afterwards, then you go on with your day doing the daily chores needed to be done. You are understanding that