At the start of high school, my family was more separated than ever, and being that my dad is in the military it never got better. Thus, I was forced to do what every young man was supposed to do, man up and get thru the day, week, and year. I would cope with my unfortunate life at home by going to the library every day which caused me to excel in high school but had created a void in my life, making me into an anti-social kid who was naïve to the outside world. As I hit senior year of high school everything in my life seemed to fall apart and the only safe places I had were the gym and library at the time. I had no goal set in mind going their other than being there for myself looking back to those days. As I am becoming an older adult There are days where I look back and asking, how did I get here? I miss those days of my childhood where I could have been doing more marginal activities to get to know myself on a deeper level. Those days looking back my younger self saw a miserable waste of time, became a successor for improving myself physically and mentally creating the person that everyone sees today. A young adult that is not afraid to be alone and to speak his …show more content…
As stated by him “when I waste time for long periods, I paradoxically become more productive… I learned the guitar, played chess, wrote poetry and articles picked up a bit of Japanese, and learned a good deal of psychology among other things.” (Park). Park encourages adults to waste their time for the reason that they can be relaxing and beneficial to being productive. In a society where everything is invariably busy. Marginal spaces are much needed as they are the exclusive grounds that help society continue. Through marginal activities one can find peace in a busy word by working a full-time job and having a