Circumstance Obstacle Or Conflict In Your Life Essay

Improved Essays
Describe a circumstance, obstacle or conflict in your life, and the skills and resources you used to resolve it. Did it change you? If so, how? I've never thought of myself as strong or leadership material. Sure I take pride in knowing that i accomplish at the segments of my life i apply myself in but never a person to take charge. Or at least the opportunity too. However this past year i was tested by my band director to lead, a privilege yet obstacle i thought i was undeserving for. For the next year i would be put in charge of 12 men and 2 girl drumline. With eyes set on first place at UIl marching contest, and with six months ahead of us we had plenty of work to do. And i, acting as drum captain assured we would get there. No matter how difficult or challenging, i would use every resource and skill i had. For the past 3 years i was just another measly pawn in high school with little to no power in what i got to do between 6 am to 5 pm. I went to my classes, did my homework, and happened to be a snare drummer in my schools band. I had always had an underlying want for control and leadership yet the opportunity …show more content…
i had procured this arrangement by some . A routine describable as 4 days of heavy practice to shed the layers and reveal a new and better layer of a player, and 3 days to rest your brain and body and soak in the new information. Personally i had researched intensely on the best ways for me to teach to my subordinates. I asked my school teachers about their techniques and spent my time on youtube watching videos on how to communicate complicated concepts and rhythms. After just a short time to the regular person's eye you could see a completely different line compared to the first week. The 5 snare drummers sounded as if one player was playing, the tenors could play through intense passages with ease and the basses could split any rhythm between themselves. All do to this

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    The group you are leading may only have a handful of alumni, so you must be prepared to take a bunch of freshman, some who may not even have any marching experience, and make them perfect by the time the season is over. Most people would see that as a challenge, but the true leaders would see that as a challenge they are willing to take one. I love taking on challenges, as I feel it builds character. Over the…

    • 753 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I honestly did not believe that I was nor did I carry myself as a leader until I got to Wilson High School. In middle school, at church, and within the different programs I am a part I was given leadership positions and was “successful” in them but Wilson High School and its community have taught me what it truly means to be a successful leader. A large part of my high school career has been dedicated to the cheerleading program here at Wilson High School. This is the aspect of my life that has developed my leadership skills such as communication, patience, innovation, flexibility, planning and much more. My coaches, teachers, and teammates have all pushed me to become the leader that I am.…

    • 434 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Stumbling upon this quote freshman year, and since then, the quote has deeply ingrained itself in my brain-- the significant effects of the quote to my life unforeseen at the time. Ayn Rand, a Russian novelist, once stated, “The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me.” As my eyes brushed upon every word, it resonated with me. The quote by the novelist are words I hold with the highest of regards, and undoubtedly, I now apply it to everyday life, notably in decision making. It resonated with me, and the reason, attributed to the ability of the words to spur feelings of determination and inspiration to strive for greatness.…

    • 527 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    As a student ready for the completion of my goals and academics, I desire to be apart of the National Honors Society. This society looks for four main qualities: character, leadership, scholarship, and service, and I can assure you that I possess all of these traits. I hope to prove to you throughout this paper that this is so. I am always ready to lead whoever I may need to. I have experience being a worship leader for my youth group, and I know the students in my youth group look up to me to lead them if they need it.…

    • 716 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I now had the title of section leader in the band, and was also an upperclassmen of the football team. It wasn’t exactly as easy as it seemed from those of the past. The sophomores thought they knew everything just because they had been there one year before, and the freshman thought they were hot shit for making it through middle school. It was painful to witness the underclassmen of football only squat halfway down, or the underclassmen of band march out of time, and have your advice go in one ear and right out the other. I decided that I needed some type of legitimacy as a leader.…

    • 511 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Marching Band Leadership

    • 700 Words
    • 3 Pages

    I rewarded the members who had shown the most dedication or improvement during a one week period of rehearsals with a bag containing goodies. This was a tradition for the marching band, one that the past leaders had neglected to follow. I felt that this tradition should not be pushed aside, especially since it helped to encourage success and effort. With this in mind, I gave the section what they wanted. All they looked for was someone to follow and trust.…

    • 700 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    I am proud to have been selected as a candidate for the National Honor Society. I have been working my whole high school career for a position in the society. I believe that I would be an excellent member of NHS because of the effort I have invested into my education and into the clubs I am involved in. Through my effort and determined character, I have proudly earned the leadership positions I now hold throughout many organizations in the high school. Overall, I am ready to become part of the society and help to further impact my community and nation alongside fellow members.…

    • 1241 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I’ve also spent many hours participating in concert band. The William Blount High School Band has not only helped me grow as a tuba player, but the band has also helped me grow as a person. I’ve learned how to interact better with people because of band; I’ve also learned how to be an effective leader by being in the William Blount High School Band. I auditioned to be a drum major at the end of my sophomore year. Thankfully, I was awarded the position of pregame drum major.…

    • 430 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    It was 8 a.m. during summer break and I had just walking into the high school to start my first year of marching band. Millions of thoughts rushed through my head, “What if I forget the music? What if I mess the drill up?”As I walked to the field one of my friends introduced me to someone who would become the greatest mentor during my high school career. Alex Murphy was the lead saxophonist at Kingsway Regional High School.…

    • 632 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Describe how your personal background and life experiences have influenced Your decision to pursue a graduate education in social work. Please include any challenges or hardships you may have overcome on your journey. When I was four years old my mother was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. My life changed completely after her diagnosis.…

    • 1465 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Example of Personal Leadership: Self Reflection

    • 1003 Words
    • 5 Pages
    • 2 Works Cited

    Emotions By nature I am a very emotional person and so far this has been my drawback. Being emotional is not a bad thing but I really cannot see anyone in pain or trouble. Controlling and managing my emotions are the biggest quality that I am currently working on.…

    • 1003 Words
    • 5 Pages
    • 2 Works Cited
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I can still remember the day when my parents told me the phrase, “You are a leader, not a follower.” It was in kindergarden right after I told them about a few girls who were making fun of a friend of fine, and I decided to stop them and defend her. When my parents told me that phrase, it definitely stuck with me throughout my life. I think that’s a phase most kids hear time to time in their childhood. It’s that phrase that makes you question, what it a leader?…

    • 1874 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    A normal person might strive to be average, to be the okay for the moment and never truly use their full potential. For a normal person, being in a leadership position can sometimes be too hard, complicated, and stressful if they are not dedicated or prepared. Each of these factors can discourage many people, people who have the potential but not the training or motivation to hold a position of leadership. I, however, believe that I have the potential, the training, and the motivation to do something amazing as the VP of District Four. As I stated, every person has the potential to be a leader, though some stand out more than others.…

    • 805 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Being a leader is not an easy job. You have to put everybody before yourself. Leadership is more than just leading people in the right direction. Being leader doesn’t mean being the boss of everybody, that’s a completely different thing. Leading is actually working with the people and going through everything together, you don’t watch them do everything while you tell them what to do.…

    • 1277 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Throughout life we are all faced with different challenges. Some challenges can help us progress as people, others can cause pain or hurt. Either way, as people I personally feel we are supposed to learn a lesson when we are faced with challenges. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. With that being said, it is entirely up to you on how you proceed after being faced with a challenge.…

    • 2230 Words
    • 9 Pages
    Improved Essays