I believe that Gogol and Moushumi were never good together from the start. They were polar opposites. Moushumi is very pretentious and uptight while Gogol is on the more calm kind of side who doesn't speak his mind much. Moushumi comes into his life just when he is looking to reconnect with his Indian roots and she is indian as well. She can relate to Gogol's growing up with immigrant parents.…
People can go through identity changes many times in their lives for many reasons including losing weight, getting married, or moving. However, the identity changes in this essay have to do with a pressuring parent and a whole new life. In the book The Joy Luck Club, the main character, Jing-mei, experiences feelings of a lost identity until the end of the novel. The sense of identity that Jing-mei feels when she visits China is comparable to the Lost Boys of Sudan starting their new lives in America. Jing-mei experiences an identity change when she learns of her Chinese heritage.…
“Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation”(Oscar Wilde). The struggle between finding ones identity and what society expects one to be is a hardship many people go through. The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros is a story about a young Mexican-American girl named Esperanza who goes through many hardships that define who she is and in the end she forms an identity. The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian by Sherman Alexie is about a reservation Indian boy named Arnold who goes through similar struggles with forming his identity.…
This gave a transformation overall with his name change. When he was still a Bengali, he can only date Bengali women but now it became possible to date American women. Gogol’s decision of becoming American also prevented him from coming home frequently. He then met a girl named Maxine at a party—an outgoing person that he felt himself comfortable with and as well as accepted by her…
Maxine simply concludes that Gogol cannot stay with his mother forever in an attempt to separate them. In doing so, Gogol is left confused as to what his true role is, whether he is the man of his family or Maxine’s boyfriend. As a result, Gogol is unsure what his true identity really is. In addition, the lack of communication between Gogol and his father Ashok leaves him confused about his true identity. Throughout the majority part of this story, Gogol does not know the reason behind his namesake.…
It is no secret that everyone is on a journey at some point in their life to find out who they are. Jhumpa Lahiri’s The Namesake is about that journey and struggle to find your true identity with the influence of culture and society. The story starts with Ashima and Asoke Ganguli leaving India in hopes of living the American Dream, Ashima gives birth to a son named Gogol. As he gets older, Gogol would not find it so easy to balance being American and being from an Indian heritage and culture.…
Shane Koyczan, the author of "To This Day", presents a narrative on names and the powerful impact these names or labels may introduce to a person's personal life depending upon the context. He describes the evolution of these negative labels throughout an individual's lifespan and the inner turmoil and challenges these labels bring about not just in the present, but in the future as well. We are his audience, every one of us, have been or could have been shaped and alienated through these labels, nicknames, or titles. Shane begins utilizing the features of "A Well-Told Story" right off the get-go with his own story. A story in which he describes, as an overweight child, how the name, pork chop, became his label early on; and the very deep impact it had on his childhood to the point where he, in fact, hates the food "pork chops" to this day.…
The couple decides that it is much easier to let their families take control over the wedding plans because it is less stress on them and makes their families happy. According to the Mazoomdar family and the Ganguli family, Moushimi and Gogol were the perfect match. When they got married, it was said that, “...he and Moushumi are fulfilling a collective, deep-seated desire-- because they’re both Bengali, everyone can let his hair down a bit” (224). In reality, the marriage was not so perfect. Instead of ending in a happy ever after, Gogol and Moushimi went their separate…
“A rose by any other name would smell as sweet,” says Shakespeare in Romeo and Juliet, explaining that names cannot change a person’s identity. The War of the Wall by Toni Cade Bambara also discusses the idea of identity, introducing that not only people, but communities can have identities. In addition, The War of the Wall points out that people and communities may have different identities, but they can also have things in common. A personal essay about identity, Names/Nombres by Julia Alvarez, examines the idea that people can have many nicknames, many identities with different people, but still be the same person. Both of these writings demonstrate the idea that identities from different points of view are what makes one who one is.…
Some days, I feel like I walk in the shoes of Josephine Alibrandi — a strong minded seventeen year old Italian girl in search of her true identity. When I’m reading this inspirational debut novel – Looking for Alibrandi it prompts me to question — do I have an identity? A name for myself where I would be generally known and identified for me. Not as a sister, a daughter, a student or a friend. Have I really created an identity for myself in life?…
For these four friends survival was the only task they needed to overcome. With the abuse from each and every parent they faced there rate for survival alone would be slim to none. Teddy, Chris. Gordie and penny were four best friends at the age of 12 that come from either a physical or mental abuse family. In “The Body” by Stephen King They overheard penny’s brother inform his friend that they have located the body of Ray Brower, So the four friends decide to take a journey to become famous which ended up not working out for them. Does Maslow’s hierarchy of needs consistently represent the characters throughout the body by Stephen King.…
In The Namesake, Jhumpa Lahiri uses sex as a pathway for Gogol to attempt to break through the cultural rules places upon him by his family. Foster offers that sex is a “symbolic action claiming for the individual freedom from convention” in which Gogol has been held to his whole life (Foster 155). As Gogol recollects on his first sexual encounter he “recalled nothing from that episode [except] only being thankful” that he had done it (Lahiri 114). This shows that Gogol is not fully interested in the sexual act, but subconsciously in the act of rebelling against his parents. When Gogol begins to live with Maxine in her parent’s home, he begins to become alive as he immerses himself into the care free life he wishes he had.…
Gogol was not given an Indian name from his Indian family or an American name as he was born in America, to emphasize an individual trying to assimilate into a different culture, but in the end, he is still bonded to his roots as the person he ethnically is. Gogol does not accept his name until his father 's death. "He knows now the guilt that his parents carried inside (Lahiri 179)" and he feels ashamed for what he has done. “Without people in the world to call him Gogol, Gogol Ganguli will vanish from the lips of loved ones (Lahiri 289).” By the end of the novel, the idea that there might be a time where no family members will be around to call him by his pet name saddens him.…
Just like Fo, Gogol has succeeded in creating a character which will stay in the minds of the audiences for a long time after they have watched the…
Attraction and shared interests are two key aspects of starting a relationship, but what allows a relationship to thrive continually? The ability to share mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual facets of your life, without feeling judged or depreciated, is the definition of effective communication. Every successful relationship needs communication, honesty, and commitment in order to succeed. In “ A Temporary Matter” Shoba and Shukumar’s were unable to communicate, following the death of their child. The author, Jhumpa Lahiri uses symbolism and foreshadowing to give the reader a better understanding of how their relationship ended.…