In other words, you have become irrational, being obsessive to everything about him or her. Emperor Xuan Zong of Tang dynasty in Chinese history was notorious to be a womanizer, yet his love story with his concubine was awfully known. The infatuation has corrupted his mind and consumed his will. Immersing into this unreasoning relationship, he gradually missed his work, drowning into his romantic life. When rebel engrossed half of his territory during Tianbao era, his realization was too late. His folly had elicited millions death of his soldier, and irreversible destruction of the feudal society. Isn’t this the greatest and most significant example above all …show more content…
True love grows from fondness which develops deep inside their heart. An unknown vow to be sworn to protect and admire who they love. “Love is not a matter of counting the years, but making the years count.” It is because of the years that they have been through together, they understand ones needs. When two people are at one in their inmost heart, they could shatter the strength of iron and bronze. Even to heaven or hell, they would risk anything just to fulfill one another. And that’s love. As mentioned above, infatuation and love are very much alike. Feeling infatuated is like the instinct of “feeling gravity that pulls you together”, but it wasn’t something that can stand long. What tantalized you might be its appearance, elegance… that seemed to spin your world, despite the fact that what you truly know about them was nothing concrete. When you planned to seek advantage on somebody, you shall never implant your true emotion. To the extreme, where there is infatuation, there is also hatred. As you treat the endearment as something to be valued, obsession of possession and ownership shall consume you, a distorted value rose beneath you. You would fetch to the end of the world to control. Even the lover was in your hand, he or she would only be treated as a puppet, taking orders and listen to your