I was at Menard’s looking to buy some paint and stain for a do it yourself project. I had a question so I navigated to the help area. After I had been waiting in line for assistance for a good while, another customer strolled over to the counter for assistance. I immediately began drawing conclusions and climbing the ladder. I began thinking that the customer was trying to cut me in line, and that they were inconsiderate. Once one of the workers asked the new customer if she needed assistance, the new customer looked to me and told me to go ahead because I was in line first. Once again, I began feeling extremely guilty for assuming the other customer was inconsiderate and rude. I then started to step back down my ladder of inference and realize that the customer was in fact not inconsiderate or rude, but kind. This is another example of how I need to change my mental model to stop assuming the worst in
I was at Menard’s looking to buy some paint and stain for a do it yourself project. I had a question so I navigated to the help area. After I had been waiting in line for assistance for a good while, another customer strolled over to the counter for assistance. I immediately began drawing conclusions and climbing the ladder. I began thinking that the customer was trying to cut me in line, and that they were inconsiderate. Once one of the workers asked the new customer if she needed assistance, the new customer looked to me and told me to go ahead because I was in line first. Once again, I began feeling extremely guilty for assuming the other customer was inconsiderate and rude. I then started to step back down my ladder of inference and realize that the customer was in fact not inconsiderate or rude, but kind. This is another example of how I need to change my mental model to stop assuming the worst in