I will start that I did not expect the response to varying as much as I thought. There are similar tones to the women yet they all manage to figure out their own goals. The responses I received from these women all varied which I found interesting. Even the two women who did not have children. The first person I interviewed was Yeni. Yeni is a good friend of mine. When I first met, her I thought she was actually in her 20s until she told me she was in her 30s. I found this shocking about her because somehow, I can talk to her and relate to her like most of my peers. In some ways, she still had a youthfulness to her personality. I told her about this but she talked negatively about her being stupid rather taking it as a compliment. She is humble
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I found her through my mom’s friends. She had two children at a young age. Her experience is not the normality for a mother in her 30s because she had children at a young age. Her experienced was different for someone compared to normality in society. I asked her what age she had her first child at 16. She mostly answered my questions by storytelling. She started by saying she grew up in a small village. Yanet only completed elementary and revolved her life on helping her mom with the household jobs. For a better opportunity, she got married at 15. Yanet and her husband decided to come to the U.S.A and had their first child here. She stated that she wished she took the chance to go to high school when the nurses encouraged her to go to school. Her husband did not approve of that and wanted her to be a stay at home mom. After a few years of that lifestyle, she decided to get a job. Her experienced reminded a bit of my mother lifestyle. This made me think if maybe this could relate to people who live in smaller villages and especially outside of the country. I asked her if she had an ideal way for a child. Yanet said the perfect age would be after having a career and being older. I asked if a specific age and she responded with 27. I asked what did her family thought about her having a child at a young age. Yanet’s parents were fine with her decisions since she left the house and got married. Although, when she came to the
I found her through my mom’s friends. She had two children at a young age. Her experience is not the normality for a mother in her 30s because she had children at a young age. Her experienced was different for someone compared to normality in society. I asked her what age she had her first child at 16. She mostly answered my questions by storytelling. She started by saying she grew up in a small village. Yanet only completed elementary and revolved her life on helping her mom with the household jobs. For a better opportunity, she got married at 15. Yanet and her husband decided to come to the U.S.A and had their first child here. She stated that she wished she took the chance to go to high school when the nurses encouraged her to go to school. Her husband did not approve of that and wanted her to be a stay at home mom. After a few years of that lifestyle, she decided to get a job. Her experienced reminded a bit of my mother lifestyle. This made me think if maybe this could relate to people who live in smaller villages and especially outside of the country. I asked her if she had an ideal way for a child. Yanet said the perfect age would be after having a career and being older. I asked if a specific age and she responded with 27. I asked what did her family thought about her having a child at a young age. Yanet’s parents were fine with her decisions since she left the house and got married. Although, when she came to the