The Song of Songs is an expression of sexual love between a man and a woman (Alexander, Alexander 403). More specifically, this book speaks of the exclusivity of spousal love, its overwhelming power, and the preciousness of that love (Barker, Burdick 1021). Song of Songs is an exploration of the feelings, hopes, fears, and passion between a man and a woman (Alexander, Alexander 403). Sexual enjoyment and consummation are both a part of the overarching theme of love (Alexander, Alexander 403). Three qualities of this love are self-giving, desire, and commitment (Whitlock, Sproul, Waltke, and Silva 1003). So basically sex is good, as long as it is in the right context, and it is a valid way to express one’s love with a …show more content…
Sex is either viewed as solely for physical pleasure by culture, or seen as something dirty within the church. Both of these are wrong ways to view sex. Song of Songs shows that a sexual relationship is a beautiful thing within a marriage. The church should not shy away from the discussion of sex because they do not see it as something pure. This leads to a misrepresentation of sex. When forced to choose between the two earlier descriptions of sex, it is easier to choose the worldly view. If not given the option of the greatness of sex within marriage, the next best option is viewing sex for physical pleasure. People should turn to the Song of Songs to see how a sexual relationship should be. They should know the Godly view of sex, rather than the worldly view or “church”