Although society expects men to hold these personality …show more content…
If a man was raped or experienced domestic abuse from a woman somehow, slapping, biting, hitting, while it is true that the woman would be looked at as crazy and unreasonable, men would be expected to shrug off something potentially traumatic. Constantly, society expects men to reach higher standards, in which they’re stronger, faster, more enduring than what may be healthy. Although society seems to be a more patriarchal existence, women are very much more victimized; men do not receive as much help because it is not acknowledged as serious. A common misconception that would provide further insight on this thought is that many people believe that men cannot be raped and that there is no actual evidence to prove that they were. Although the actual definition of rape is ambiguous or androgynous in the way that it does not pertain to one sex, people often associate it to women and disregard what male victims would go through. A statement that the world sees in a joking light is “Not all men.” A person will go through traumatic moments in life and often, the logical course of action after that seems to be to avoid anything that may cause a similar situation to take place. Consequently, many men are stereotyped after the media represents them in such a contemptful light that often remind others of what people are really capable of. Unfortunately, this also means that those who are …show more content…
Throughout the course of the events described in the book, Brett consecutively goes back to Jake and opens up about her struggles with men and how she really would have liked to be with him. Similarly, however subtle it may be, Jake’s behavior seems to indicate a symptom of being unstable, represented how he and his friends consume so much alcohol without blinking an eye. Although it wasn’t recent, Jake’s behavior implies that he is emotionally affected from his injury from the war. An example is Jake’s constant need to sleep with Brett and be with her, but being prevented by it. Despite the fact that she seems to be what he needs to feel satisfied, Jake will never be able to be with her because he can’t consummate their