Listening should be positive and nonjudgmental, we should be aware of our filter, pre-judged the importance of a message through selection, be aware of red flag words that cause us to lose focus on the intended message, and our communication should represent who we are. The ability to listen may change the shape of the relationship and bring you closer to others (Liberty, 2016). Madelyn Burley-Allen expressed that listening to yourself can achieve self-awareness and increase productivity. This internal thought process develops the habit of listening to what you are thinking. Intern, this awareness can lead to an understanding of the beliefs by which you live your life. Burley-Allen also stated that “When we assume responsibility for ourselves, following the road to self-development, person effectiveness, and power can be a privilege rather than a chore.” The attributes for ideal listening was shared, but there are also listening barriers. These barriers can lead to befuddling, such as distortions, misinterpretation, and loss of detail, just to name a few (Burley-Allen, 1995,
Listening should be positive and nonjudgmental, we should be aware of our filter, pre-judged the importance of a message through selection, be aware of red flag words that cause us to lose focus on the intended message, and our communication should represent who we are. The ability to listen may change the shape of the relationship and bring you closer to others (Liberty, 2016). Madelyn Burley-Allen expressed that listening to yourself can achieve self-awareness and increase productivity. This internal thought process develops the habit of listening to what you are thinking. Intern, this awareness can lead to an understanding of the beliefs by which you live your life. Burley-Allen also stated that “When we assume responsibility for ourselves, following the road to self-development, person effectiveness, and power can be a privilege rather than a chore.” The attributes for ideal listening was shared, but there are also listening barriers. These barriers can lead to befuddling, such as distortions, misinterpretation, and loss of detail, just to name a few (Burley-Allen, 1995,