Introduction In this book, Melody Beattie, the author gives an overall picture of codependency as it relates to relationship with others as their sole source of value and identity. She goes into detail on how a codependent is a person who believes that their happiness is derived from other people or one particular person. This eventually leads to obsessing or controlling the behavior of the person that is believed to be making them happy. Sadly, this can result in relationships with drug and alcohol lovers.…
Bereavement relates to the deprivation of someone by death. For an individual, the death of a love one can be considered one of the greatest losses one may have. Nonetheless, an individual may also have feelings of bereavement when having other losses, such as the loss of health, the end of an important relationship, or health loss by someone close to the individual. Another healthy response to loss is grief. All individuals have different feelings of grief, but there are some particular stages to the process of mourning experienced by the individual.…
They are not our family members, so the reason why we are emotionally connected to them is because we value their personalities. In his essay “Drugs Will Kill Your Friends,” Rob Delaney talks about three young people killed by their addictions. What makes them different to him from other addicts, is that they were his friends. Each of them was also talented, kind or educated. Delaney even feels their presence remembering moments he got to spend with them: “I really feel them in me, sort of seated in my heart and along for the ride.”…
The dual process model recognises that both expressing and controlling feelings are important and introduces the concept of oscillation between coping behaviours. Grief is viewed as a dynamic process which alternates between focusing on the loss of the person who has died (loss orientation) and avoiding that focus (restoration orientation). Both loss orientation and restoration orientation are necessary for future adjustment, but the degree and emphasis on each approach depends on the circumstances of the death, personality, gender and cultural background of each person. The model also posits that by taking 'time off' from the pain of grief, which can be overwhelming, a bereaved person may be more able to cope with daily life and the secondary changes to…
In Paul Kenny’s JNeurci article, he explains this process. It is most clearly seen in cocaine addicts. When these patients have been sober for a significant amount of time they began to feel remorseful towards their actions. Many feel for their families and friends that are affected by their addiction. Their cognitive outlook on life changes (Kenny, Rehab Behavior).…
Often people feel anticipatory grief when they know someone they care about is seriously ill. Anticipatory grief refers to the normal mourning that occurs when a patient or family is expecting a death. Anticipatory grief has many of the same symptoms as those experienced after a death has occurred. It includes all of the thinking, feeling, cultural, and social reactions to an expected death that are felt by the patient and family. It includes depression, extreme concern for the dying person, preparing for the death, and adjusting to changes caused by the death.…
Introduction My focus for my practice based-problem is interventions that reduce complicated bereavement symptoms that could result in major depression and complicated grief for elderly widows coping with spousal loss. For most middle-aged and older individuals, the death of a husband or wife is one of the most distressing life events (Wilcox et al., 2003). As a result, widowhood could lead to economic and health problems such as poverty, alcoholism, and high blood pressure (Wilcox et al., 2003). As a social worker, I want the community, family members, and health professionals of senior citizens to make available resources to help them cope with their loss and grief (Black & Dobbs, 2014).…
Developmental Influences and Considerations Life’s circumstances vary from one person to the next. It can be assured that none of us are born for the purpose of becoming addicted to substances, habits or some other demoralizing infatuation. However, life’s experiences are often both good and bad teachers; paving the way for the possibility of debilitating problems which may not be so easily conquered. In the case of Alan, we are offered an idea of how troubles in life can send someone to the point of seeking an escape by means of unhealthy practices.…
Describe the Situation: Grief is an individual’s natural coping mechanism when dealing with the loss of someone/something no longer in their life. As portrayed by Heart to Heart Hospice, “grief is the natural way we cope with loss” (When You Are Grieving, 2013). Heart to Heart Hospice, located in Indiana, Michigan and Texas, is a hospice agency that provides services for individuals with incurable illnesses and their loved ones. To obtain contact information, services provided or local agencies visit their website HearttoHeartHospice.com. The twenty-six Heart to Heart Hospice locations offers nursing and physician care, social services, occupational and speech therapy, homemaker services and pain management control to individuals with terminal…
Complicated grief happens to approximately 10-20% of bereaved persons and is described as a chronic heightened state of mourning (Khoshaba). When experiencing complicated grief one needs grief therapy not to be confused with grief counseling; in grief counseling you facilitate the bereaved person through the mourning tasks, while grief therapy you are identifying and resolving conflicts that are keeping you from successfully completing the mourning tasks. If a person is experiencing complicated grief they may or may not realize it themselves but the important part is that they are willing to accept your help. A person experiencing complicated grief tends to yo-yo between the stages of grief with no resolution. “Complicated grievers remember…
According to the counseling website , grief is considered a normal reaction to a loss. The loss can be either someone or something you loved and cared about deeply. For example, pets owners often suffer the same amount of grief over losing their pet as they would losing a loved one. Grief can impact a person in a variety of ways. Alon with emotional problems, the patient can experience physical, social and behavioral complications.…
Mindfulness and Drug Addiction Treatment An individual with substance abuse issues tends to live in the past and dwell on the "woulda, shoulda, coulda," focus on ways to alter their mood, function on auto-pilot, and be driven by emotions without analysis of the consequences. Mindfulness is a viable strategy that will prioritize and help the individual to focus on the present. Mindfulness can assist with decreasing mood dependent behaviors by increasing awareness of thoughts and acceptance without judgment. To acknowledge and accept rather than to modify or suppress experiences enables nonjudgmental acceptance of moment-to-moment life events (Germer,2005).…
A social problem that is present in our current society would be drug usage. Drug usage is a common social problem that affects a tremendous amount of people on a daily basis. It is considered to be a problem because it intervenes with the drug user’s life as well as anyone else around that person’s life. As a drug user, that person’s reality is now wrapped around the drug. A drug abuser’s life is now socially reconstructed around that drug, leading to his entire reality to change dramatically.…
Domestic Abuse Intimate partner abuse has some correlation with substance abuse, being that alcohol and drugs have a large part in the use of violence within these relationships. This is not always the case but the likelihood of violence is higher when one or both of the partners is under the influence of drugs. Domestic violence is defined as “abuse committed against an adult or fully emancipated minor who is a spouse, former spouse, cohabitant, former cohabitant, or person with whom the suspect has had a child or is having or has had a dating or engagement relationship” (Watkins, 2016). This can be in the form of physical abuse, sexual abuse, and/or emotional/ psychological abuse.…
Grief and Loss Loss is a necessary and essential experience in human life. As we grow we abandon our favorite objects, like toys or a blanket, we say goodbye to places and people, we are giving up on teenage dreams and hopes of becoming famous artists or performers. These experiences allow us to change, develop, fulfill, and explore our potential. Therefore, loss is not always beneficial, some losses are more difficult to accept than others, and they can be devastating. The emotional response to debilitating loss refers to grief or bereavement which involves life’s changes, the way a person thinks, feels, and expresses themselves.…