“Those with attachment avoidance may drive themselves to be perfect in order to cover up their hidden sense of imperfections. They may think, ‘If I am perfect, no one will hurt me’ ” (Flett, Hewitt, Oliver, & Macdonald, 2002). I have been worked on June’s perfectionism, but I have never conceptualized it from the attachment theory. It seems like this issue went far away from the topic of sexuality, however, if perfection happens between intimate couples, it can largely damage the relationship. For instance, June remarked that once a
“Those with attachment avoidance may drive themselves to be perfect in order to cover up their hidden sense of imperfections. They may think, ‘If I am perfect, no one will hurt me’ ” (Flett, Hewitt, Oliver, & Macdonald, 2002). I have been worked on June’s perfectionism, but I have never conceptualized it from the attachment theory. It seems like this issue went far away from the topic of sexuality, however, if perfection happens between intimate couples, it can largely damage the relationship. For instance, June remarked that once a