other person that’s in our life. Now, please understand that this does not mean that it is impossible for a person to resolve these matters once they are married, but it would be wise to sort out these identity issues before you decide to marry. These are some suggestions offered by Elmer Thomas in The Single Adult & the Church, to help single adults find answers in the search for identity. He states:
The single adult, whether Christian or not, whether spiritual or not, must realize that he is a member of the human race and as such in need of redemption. He must realize he is one who Christ died for. Also, the single adult must realize that he or she is a child of God and a special concern for God’s love. The single adult must have a …show more content…
This is one of the keys to living a successful life as a Christian. Singles should remember that God’s opinion of them is the one that really matters. Our identity doesn’t depend on something that we do or don’t do. It doesn’t depend on what we’ve done in the past. Our true identity is who Father God says we are. What matters is that we recognize that we are redeemed and loved by God. Your season of singleness should be a time of excitement and discovery for you. This is the time to discover who you are in Christ and embrace the person God has created you to be. Experience this love that God has so freely given to you, so you can properly share it with others that enter your life. As the book of John states “Behold, what manner of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called the children of God. And that is what we are!” (1 John 3.1).
Questions for Discussion & Reflection:
1. After reading this Chapter, what insight did you receive as it relates to your Identity?
2. Who Are You? Is your Identity wrapped up in your career, education, titles, performance, etc.?
3. Are you seeking something or someone to establish your identity or validate you?
4. Are you happy & content being who you are in this season of your life?
5. How can you begin to find your true identity as it relates to Christ your
The single adult, whether Christian or not, whether spiritual or not, must realize that he is a member of the human race and as such in need of redemption. He must realize he is one who Christ died for. Also, the single adult must realize that he or she is a child of God and a special concern for God’s love. The single adult must have a …show more content…
This is one of the keys to living a successful life as a Christian. Singles should remember that God’s opinion of them is the one that really matters. Our identity doesn’t depend on something that we do or don’t do. It doesn’t depend on what we’ve done in the past. Our true identity is who Father God says we are. What matters is that we recognize that we are redeemed and loved by God. Your season of singleness should be a time of excitement and discovery for you. This is the time to discover who you are in Christ and embrace the person God has created you to be. Experience this love that God has so freely given to you, so you can properly share it with others that enter your life. As the book of John states “Behold, what manner of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called the children of God. And that is what we are!” (1 John 3.1).
Questions for Discussion & Reflection:
1. After reading this Chapter, what insight did you receive as it relates to your Identity?
2. Who Are You? Is your Identity wrapped up in your career, education, titles, performance, etc.?
3. Are you seeking something or someone to establish your identity or validate you?
4. Are you happy & content being who you are in this season of your life?
5. How can you begin to find your true identity as it relates to Christ your