Namely, this last fall, I had the chance to be the field commander of the Tooele High Marching Band. This experience helped me in ways that I didn’t know were possible. The most difficult thing I have ever experienced was being drum major of the Tooele High band. I was put in charge of 78 of my fellow band members. The experience taught me so much about leadership. There were many aspects of being in this position that were challenging. I was directing family and friends, which made it hard to gain respect. I was put in stressful situations where I had to make quick decisions. The people I was leading needed to trust and respect me. I also learned the importance of honesty while leading the marching band.
Although these positions were demanding, my experiences were necessary for personal growth. I learned that there is a perfect balance between being a friend and a leader. I have learned strategies to handle challenges and stressful situations in a healthy way. Most importantly, I came to know how important it is to be honest and trustworthy to my